Earlier nag watched kog movie “The Hopeful Romantic”. Love-comedy genre sya nga salida which is ang Guy is really trying hard to pretend nga rich person siya or anything nga pwede niya e prove nga magustuhan sa babae which is very opposite sa iyang current life situation. The movie was a little-bit corny to be honest, maka-ingon ta ba nganong magpa pretend paman siya nga pwede raman simplehun ang kinabuhi char. Pero btaw actually we all are trying to be the best verson of who we are not just once but for every day. For some times or for most of the times we are pretending to be something we are not.
Kita mga laki I know nagpa-pretend sad ta sauna atung nanguyab pata sa atung mga partner. Tinoud?
To the people nga aduna nay mga trabaho dili man tanan pero some of them are still pretending and trying to prove para makuha ang respeto nga gusto nila.
Uso raba kaayu ng toxic culture sa mga Pinoy nga inihap ang respeto depende sa unsay naabot or unsay trabaho anang tawhana.
Ang uban diri gapa pretend nalang nga okay sila pero dili gud to okay. Mao jud ni ang kamatouran kay ang uban diri nagpaka-strong nalang for their family, friends, job, ug unsa panang mga butanga tungod kay kailangan nila.
For any reasons kitang tanan, we are all trying to be something that we are not and it’s okay. We’re trying to prove something to the point that we need to pretend. We’re trying to prove to anything, to everyone and even to ourself. I’m not trying to correct you from pretending but I want to promote positivity.
(Even akung grammar very pretending kaayo. Haha bitaw.)
I want you to know that God knows everything you have ever done and He loves you totally and fully. Sa karon nga upgraded na kay ang tanan uso ng mga aesthetic nga mga panamit ug ikaw nga wala gihapoy “wow” nga masout, sige lang okay rajud kaayo na. Kay God bitaw you don’t need to pretend anymore. Period.
For so long we’ve been pretending. The truth is we just want to meet their expectation and fulfill their purpose or satisfaction for your life. We are pleasing to everyone else.
Kabalo ka even God can’t please everyone here on Earth. Ang uban ga-ampo nga gusto mag ulan, ang uban sad ga-ampo nga dili na mu-ulan. Dili lang jud ta perfect. So unsa may tambal aning atung pag pretend nalang sige? Stop focusing on what others think ug pag focus sa Ginoo. Kana ra.
Freedom comes when you look to God for approval and not anyone else. Dili na nimo kailangan e-earn ang gugma sa Ginoo. You don’t need to be perfect in order to please Him. You don’t need to fake everything. He knows everything you’ve ever done, and He loves you totally, fully, and overwhelmingly. You don’t need to pretend anymore. Gawing simple ang buhay!
